True Life: Will & Grace, I'm straight, he's gay.

Check out Men Sleeping With Men Part I HERE So the last time we discussed this we talked about the idea of Men who sleep with Men but aren’t gay. The overall consensus was that this is in fact just an attempt for men to try to justify being down low or avoid the actual [...]

Catching Feelings…

I’m sure everyone has been in that situation in which you and another are just kicking it as friends (with or without benefits) and you think that all is well as is. Well I’m pretty positive that this happens often as numerous people have been chatting with me about this and I’ve actually experienced it [...]

Guest Post: You're all that I need

**** Recently I put out a call to all my bloggers to give me some good stuff about the great sides to being in a relationship and they all showed up! I’m so very excited! If you want to write something, hit me up and we’ll get you on here! Today’s blog comes from a [...]

Protected: Your woman is not Alaska

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The Tahiry Effect: Women and their tricks

Most of my blog topics stem from conversations or requests. This one is no different. As am I often found doing, yesterday I was having a conversation with a friend on the complexities of relationships. I was talking about the newest phenomenon in cosmetic procedures: hydrogel injections, affectionately known as Butt Shots. My friend was [...]

Doing The Math.

This is a new concept for me so please, help me out if you can. A friend of mine was trying to explain why guys sometimes do things to a mass audience. We were discussing the mass texting phenomenon and how men often times get caught due to underestimating and a lack of understanding the [...]

Everything's Gay…only not

So it seems like the recent trend in the world is to be Gay. I mean all the cool kids (but not actually, The Cool Kids) are doing it. There is nothing wrong with this, but as a young single woman who strongly desires the company of a man, it is slightly scary to feel [...]

Not EVERYONE has a huge ego…

***I’m having a super mean day as someone is trying to steal money from me and I’m very upset about it. I started a pretty cool blog post for today, but got too angry to finish it. LOL Soooo. In an effort to finally finish importing all of my old blogs to my new site, [...]

Black Men I LOVE you but….

….(and y’all gon’ hate me for this) Stop being so nice. WAIT! Wait! Hear me out. Listen, I’ve put on a few pounds in the past month. I know this. I ran a 5k and did the Daniel Fast with my church a few months back and after I finished alladat I ate Fried Chicken [...]

I'm not tryna save that boy

So a few friends of mine over my Google Group were having a discussion about fixer uppers. The conversation was centered around whether or not men date fixer uppers. The common consensus was that women are far more willing to date a man they can “Fix up”. The logic behind this was that women are [...]