Catching Feelings…

I’m sure everyone has been in that situation in which you and another are just kicking it as friends (with or without benefits) and you think that all is well as is. Well I’m pretty positive that this happens often as numerous people have been chatting with me about this and I’ve actually experienced it [...]

Ladies, I am not the enemy

I consider myself to be a pretty cool chick. I’m a good friend to anyone that wishes to be befriended. I love sports, I love good music, and I cook. Who wouldn’t want to be my friend? Well, it would seem that sometimes there are those out there that wish I would fall off the [...]

Ten things that annoy me about men

****To those of you who read here and over at FXP I apologize for the re-post so soon, but I know that most of my readers may not be up on FXP yet, so here is my way to try to bring the two together! Check it out. This is in response to this post [...]

I'm not tryna save that boy

So a few friends of mine over my Google Group were having a discussion about fixer uppers. The conversation was centered around whether or not men date fixer uppers. The common consensus was that women are far more willing to date a man they can “Fix up”. The logic behind this was that women are [...]

The Weapon named Sex

Hopped up out the bed this morning, had so much material to write, it was almost too much. Here’s a post from my archives that I thought my newest readers could enjoy, and my older ones may appreciate still. Is the Sex enough? No woman wants to admit it because sometimes we don’t notice it. [...]

Single Ladies, Put a ring on HIM?

Necole Bitchie had a blog a while back about how Michael Jai White’s wife Courtney proposed to him because she was tired of waiting. Ms. Bitchie was simply putting it out there that maybe it is okay for women to propose considering that our men are acting as if they don’t want to. She also quoted [...]

How many wrongs can make it right?

We all know the story. Two people are in a relationship, one person starts to suspect things aren’t right. New panties/whitey tighties in the mix, all of a sudden he wears cologne, she does her hair just to go to the grocery store. Something is afoot. Here lies the fork in the road. According to [...]